shimdidlyTalking to normies about privacy:
Using the term “normies” paints you as having a superiority complex, which isn’t the best look.
Really? I just interpreted the use of normie here as “layperson” or “average user” and thought it was completely harmless.
Have someone refer to you as a normie and lmk if it feels neutral or derogatory.
I can’t imagine normies getting worked up over what some internet nerd calls them
That’s neither here nor there and just completely sidesteps the question. Also, depending on how you define normies and nerds, it’s a bit silly. In 2024, you’re telling me you can’t imagine a random person being worked up by being called names online? Okay then 👌
If any professional or expert in fields I don’t know shit about calls me a normie that’s absolutely fine and justified.
Why is normie derogatory and layperson isn’t? Or is any word describing a level of competence demeaning in your eyes?
“Layperson” is a neutral term that simply refers to someone who is not an expert or professional in a particular field.
On the other hand, “normie” is a slang term. It’s often used pejoratively to describe someone who is perceived as mainstream or conventional in their tastes, interests, or behaviors, especially in contrast to subcultures that value niche, specialized, or unconventional interests. The term can carry a dismissive or derogatory tone, implying that the person is out of touch with certain subcultures or lacks depth in their interests. This can make it offensive to some, as it suggests a judgment on their personal preferences or social identity.
The difference in offensiveness comes down to intent and perception: “layperson” is descriptive and objective, while “normie” can be used to exclude or demean.