Talking to normies about privacy:
Talking to normies about privacy:
Good that you’ve both found a way to feel superior to others
Completely unrelated, what are the privacy concerns from discord?
They’ve done a shockingly good job of funding themselves without selling user info thus far.
to my cynical ass, this just looks like they (and their investors) are more interested in being acquired (with their treasure trove of user data fully exclusive) than in opening up short term revenue streams.
Being a normie isn’t the best look either.
Misanthropy in current times is an indicator of a functioning brain.
And there’s the “both sides are the same” argument
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I’ve written software you use every day. Apache, NGinx, and a bunch of CNCF projects. I’m just as good as you at tech, likely better, and have a full understanding. I didn’t give a crap.
Opinions like yours are the essence of fedora anti culture that paints a picture of the asshole IT guy.
I appreciate you calling out the use of the term “normie”. Communities that frequently use such terms always end up with an unhealthy “us vs them” mentality.
Like I’m not surprised people don’t react well to someone bringing up privacy issues if said person starts the conversation with the mentality of “how do I enlighten this normie?”
How do I reeeach theese Normies
“there’s a difference between disagreeing and being disrespectful.”
That’s the point I was trying to make.
Someone was getting downvoted for saying people shouldn’t use that term.
imho using the term ‘normie’ and downvoting opinions you disagree with are both rude.
And no one in this thread has explained why I should think I’m wrong.
If we’ve gone too far from the original intent, I’ll say goodbye.
You’re not wrong. That said sometimes it can be self-deprecating.
In any case, one substitute is “non-nerds”, but I’m sure someone can think of a term that fits even better in the meme.
If any professional or expert in fields I don’t know shit about calls me a normie that’s absolutely fine and justified.
Why is normie derogatory and layperson isn’t? Or is any word describing a level of competence demeaning in your eyes?
“Layperson” is a neutral term that simply refers to someone who is not an expert or professional in a particular field.
On the other hand, “normie” is a slang term. It’s often used pejoratively to describe someone who is perceived as mainstream or conventional in their tastes, interests, or behaviors, especially in contrast to subcultures that value niche, specialized, or unconventional interests. The term can carry a dismissive or derogatory tone, implying that the person is out of touch with certain subcultures or lacks depth in their interests. This can make it offensive to some, as it suggests a judgment on their personal preferences or social identity.
The difference in offensiveness comes down to intent and perception: “layperson” is descriptive and objective, while “normie” can be used to exclude or demean.
It implies them having that complex, thinking they know better than, as another comment pointed out, some nerds.
You know, that kind of people thinking their degree of social anthropology or whatever makes them smarter than you in every area. Because whatever they are doing is important and whatever you are doing is toys for nerds.
Maybe you’re grown and still dealing with that, but either way: using the term normies is not going to help at all, I assure you.
This seems common sense to you, right?
Well, I, being almost 28, am just starting to realize that you should carefully measure both respect and disrespect, and there may be too little or too much of both.
Maybe not “social butterfly”, I’m just thinking of all the people thinking they now know what is serious in life. A surprising amount don’t have complex hobbies or even deep cultural familiarity with their own profession.
And if that profession is more about talking to people than about conceptualization (many typical office jobs), or maybe it is descriptive, not creative (like many liberal arts degrees), they are going to be dismissive of people who actually make things.
Watching and doing is different, and people watching often think too much of their ability to do stuff, just like with sports or music or cars or warfare or porn.