@taylorlorenz well that's a terrible opinion and I hate it!
/s
I know exactly what group I'm in, and I'm ok with that. after all, we can't learn unless someone jumpstarts the discussion.
@Pineywoozle @taylorlorenz @davebauerart
I think if myself as a "commenter."
See -- I'm commenting, here, now.
And since before "social media" became a thing, I've been looking for connections to others with shared interests.
Like, "Let's get a group of academics together to do a shared writing project of Software Design Patterns."
Or, "Let's talk about Agile Software Development, and how to do it better."
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It's discussions between people who can't conveniently meet in real life.
@Pineywoozle @taylorlorenz @davebauerart
I still think that one of the greatest and best features of Usenet was that every post and every conversation is within a well defined *TOPIC* within a hierarchy of the same.
No one has ever signed up for or tried to read all of Usenet. You read, and maybe reply on, topics that interest you.
You don't follow people, you follow topics.
@taylorlorenz Lemmy suffers from the same problem and it's why I am disillusioned in the idea that it could ever replace Reddit.
Lurking and maybe occasionally commenting is is fine once a social media platform is well-established and has achieved saturation, but in its infancy it requires additional effort from the average user just to maintain the sense of participation than it would otherwise.
@taylorlorenz
> The development of trolls appears to be the internet’s version of carcinization.
I love it.
"Posters are unwell"...yeah social media isn't going to solve a lot of people's problems. It'll do the opposite.
I still don't understand the difference between commenters and "reply guys." I sometimes don't engage with social media posts on the grounds that I don't know what a "reply guy" is and I don't want to be one.
The explanation presented here doesn't explain reply guys to me. Are reply guys trolls? When is a commenter a reply guy?
@taylorlorenz I feel it's more about quality than quantity. Blue sky is so toxic because there's no thought behind any single post.
It's my own anecdote but it seems like people on Mastodon sometimes click that x button on the corner or "agree to disagree" on Bluesky shit just never ends until it turns into straight up doxing and bullying.