This is like the fifth time my wife has asked me to explain what gaslighting is but she insists that we’ve never had this discussion before and I’m starting to doubt the reliability of my memories.
@Chrishallbeck Try explaining it while dressed as a sugarplum fairy. She wants you to doubt your past? Make her doubt her present.

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I need to know more ... What were you doing before she asked you? ... Giggles ... Wifes smarter ... Just saying ... Hugz ... Maybe her intentions were for you to mansplain to see if you get what you did ... Hugz ... I'm sure she isn't ... And would love to know her reaction if you read this out to her ... Hugz

Hugz & xXx

@Chrishallbeck Gaslighting isn’t real
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It's what they had before electric lights. The living room overhead lamp one place I lived was converted to electric.

@tudza @Chrishallbeck

"It's what they had before electric lights. The living room overhead lamp one place I lived was converted to electric."

No it wasn't! You're lying! We never had a living room!!

@Chrishallbeck maybe she got replaced by an AU (artificial unintelligence) and needs training data
@Chrishallbeck are you sure you are married?
@Chrishallbeck She may be trying to sell you propane and propane accessories.
@Chrishallbeck Make it memorable so she can remember it like doing something dumb or funny.
@Chrishallbeck It's like the fifth time, but not quite the same as it?
@Chrishallbeck I think I do the same to my wife, whenever she says I’m “gaslighting her” I need to ask her what it means, needless to say she’s never in the mood to explain at the time, and I never seem to look it up ….🤷
@Chrishallbeck Just because someone is gaslighting you doesn't mean your perception of reality IS reliable.
@Chrishallbeck and that is in essence “gas lighting”