I'm here to do an #introduction post since my nicest one went down in flames when firefish.lgbt disappeared, god rest her soul

I'm a #writer. I like to write about #grief, #QueerIdentity, #hope, #praxis, and #harm + #reciprocity. (my websites are in my links!)

I have trained as a #DeathDoula, and I engage in #GriefWork & #DeathWork with and for my best beloveds: the #LGBTQIA2S+ community.

In my spare time you can find me hyperfocusing on whatever it is that I can't stop thinking about. I love a new game, a new favorite song, a new project management solution, and thinking about my chosen family and intentional community.

I'm #pagan, I am training in an old mystery tradition of pre-Gardnerian British traditional #witchcraft. We are from a long time ago and we are doing what it takes to support, love, and keep safe the people in our communities.

I will always fight for your right to #choose. I believe this right is a fundamental human gift.

I like good smells, loud music, interesting podcasts about the supernatural, paranormal, and true crime when they're done tastefully.

I miss the stereo system that I had when I was fifteen, that I bought with my own money. Dual cassette deck, a whole set of speakers, and a volume level that would blow out your eardrums if you weren't careful. (I was almost not careful enough)

I love #FrogAndToad, #UrsulaKLeGuin, my various well-worn copies of #LordOfTheRings, burning incense and candles that smell like ginger, citrus, vanilla, black tea.

I used to be the only parent to four kids, and now I am part of a blended family group (we refer to ourselves as an intentional community most of the time). I don't have to parent alone, I don't have to make money decisions alone, and I won't grow old alone. As a sweet bonus, my co-parents had a wee child four years ago and he is one of my most favorite people.

If I'm stranded at the airport, I'll have my antihistamines, nose spray, chapstick, and water bottle.

... and finally, here are three songs I like to play on repeat:

**Dirty**, grandson
https://open.spotify.com/track/3pShTDa5E1bPBkrc1mxxGY?si=3f305aabe8424e4c

"Do you love your neighbor?
Is it in your nature?
Do you love a sunset?
Aren't you fed up yet?

Do you have enough love in your heart to go and get your hands dirty?"

**Anoana**, Heilung
https://open.spotify.com/track/4wF6lIxhTibOo5yeeYChUf?si=16c9e588d0a04740

(turn it up and wear earbuds if you're able)

**Home**, Elizaveta
https://open.spotify.com/track/1cLh9mKbWspF5YS5vDwjbs?si=2cbae1537a194f8a

to me, this song sounds like what nostalgia feels like.

Dirty

Song ยท grandson ยท 2020

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