The French Revolution wasn't *that* violent in the beginning, in 1789-1792. You get the impression many people think French commoners spontaneously rose up and cut off the King's head but it was 3.5 years between the Bastille and Louis XVI's execution. Hell the King even participated in the first ever Bastille day celebration.
All hell broke loose, the Terror, the mass killings, *after* France got involved in an existential war and the King was exposed as a traitor and everyone panicked.