I can understand why some men got so angry at the Barbie movie, she undermines their whole worldview when she tells Ken “you are not the car that you drive, you are not the contents of your wallet” nope, that was Tyler Durden in Fight Club. No she says “you are not your girlfriend, you are not your house”. Both movies have the same message about toxic masculinity
While I think the movie is fine, I don't like the misrepresentation of the complaints. The problem is an oversimplification of the end.
(Spoiler)
Barbieland is a single gender dominated society. Ken rebels against that and Barbie restores order, all is well. The message is, "Society dominated by men is bad, society dominated by women is good." That's not at all what the movie is trying to say, but if you're going in ready to find a fault it's real easy to paint a picture.