What is a furry? A fetish or lifestyle? What is the draw? I have a basic idea, but I've heard high schoolers talk about that scene in very unfavorable light.
I'm genX so it's new to me. I've only heard about that hotel pizza story from years back.
Any Furry in here that can help me understand? TY
#furry
@SophiaHayter varies depending on the person; for us we are animists first and furry second, and we seek other compatible furry animist types for social and spiritual reasons
@atax1a oh, animist like the Japanese or my grandma. Spirits in many things?
@SophiaHayter yeah, exactly. we have coyote/mouse/scorpion spirits within us from our family and the land, and it's been easiest for us to find people who can respect and honor that within the larger guise of "furry" than anywhere else in culture

@SophiaHayter fetish or lifestyle? depends on the person!

what's the draw? I'm not sure, personally. I mean it's like why do I like ice cream? I just find anthropomorphic animals appealing from many angles.

@SophiaHayter
It's a fetish, a lifestyle, a collection of aesthetics, a community, and a subculture.

There's a lot of variation in what draws people to #Furry. For me personally, it was a space where I could explore my gender and sexuality without worrying about being judged for being weird. Didn't hurt that I was fascinated with centaurs at the time too. =3

@SophiaHayter
There's essentially just one unifying thread linking all the disparate ways for people to be furry, and that's the adoption of an anthropomorphic character (one's furry persona, or "fursona") as an avatar with which one interacts with other furries.

@SophiaHayter
For some, the appeal is spiritual. "Therians" are a subset of furries who see themselves as having non-human souls and thus identify strongly with another species.

For others, the appeal is pornographic. There is a /lot/ of overlap between the furry and kink communities.

For most, at least part of the appeal is the community itself. For furries, going to a furry convention induces such a feeling of belonging that "post-con depression" is a very common experience.

@SophiaHayter
Seriously, I never knew what "coming home" really felt like until I walked into a hotel lobby full of "my people" for the first time.

Having to leave that and go back to a life where I spend most of my time masking myself as a "totally normal human" feels like going back into the closet.

@SophiaHayter If you've got about an hour and a half, here's a documentary about the fandom produced by the fandom.

https://youtu.be/iv0QaTW3kEY

The Fandom: A Furry Documentary Full Movie

THE FANDOM is a documentary film about the furry fandom. It dives headfirst into the imaginative world of “FURRIES,” the often-misunderstood internet subcult...

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@LexYeen I'm in grad school. I don't! Haha thank you. I will save this. Trying to teach my kid it isn't a bad thing.

@SophiaHayter Hah, fair enough - and good luck with your studies!

As for the furry fandom at large? Cliff's notes: We're a bunch of creative animal-loving nerds that like art, animation, sculpture, writing, and music. Most every convention features costuming competitions, dances, art shows, and panels on how to start or refine creative talents.

@SophiaHayter 39 here been a furry since ... Starfox 64? So I guess late 90s or something? For me it was just community initially. I'm a poc but grew up in a rural community where it was better for me to stay inside. Internet was young and this is how I found my friends and personal network. As I've grown older I still find friends and professional contacts wherever I go. It's just a part of my life now I suppose?

@SophiaHayter the short answer is it’s whatever any individual in the community needs it to be, typically having it’s roots in escapism and self-expression.

I would personally recommend taking a look at Pittsburgh City Paper’s “Fur and Loathing” article which does a pretty good job of giving a good outside perspective.

Fur and Loathing at David L. Lawrence Convention Center

Pittsburgh City Paper spent a day at 2023's Anthrocon and lived to tell the tale.

Pittsburgh City Paper

@SophiaHayter ask 12 furries and you will get 15 different answers.

For some it's very spiritual, for others it's a great artistic endeavour, and for yet others it is highly sexual and sexually charged.

But for most there is some kind of mix of the three but always some form of escapism and expression divorced from the perceived banality of the human form.

Also, I wouldn't trust highschoolers opinions on much; particularly sexuality. Too many still read drivel like Atlas Shrugged.

@GordonFawks lol, they should not read that, no one should. My kid won't go to the early College HS because the rumor is only Furries attend there. So I'm like, why do they hate them?

@SophiaHayter There are times when I hear a rumor that baffles me completely and this is one.

(I am also having to remind myself that US and Canadian colleges are very different. Here a college is a trade school.)

I doubt there would be enough furries in any given HS to fill a class, no less the entire building?

@SophiaHayter it's a fairly loose concept, honestly - the only prerequisite is anthropomorphism in some way. Most pre-Judeo-Christian cultures incorporate anthropomorphism in spirituality on some level to explore human integration with the natural world. It's deep rooted.

In the modern context? Often there are lifestyle elements, many folks immerse themselves in it. Fetish exists within that. It's not exclusively a sexual experience though; for many (me included) it's a much broader vehicle for self-expression, creative and personal, which allows one to explore identity through fictional characters. Those characters being anthro animals is just aesthetic preference, although it often carries a deeper meaning, like therianism.

The biggest draw card is community; a global association, loosely aggregated, of other folks with similar interests. It definitely isn't a monolith.

@SophiaHayter Can be either, depends on the person!

Animal characters are cool. They can be more fun to customize than human characters, especially in games like VR Chat and Second Life with robust furry cultures. A lot of us grew up on cartoons and games with funny animals and grew attached to that.