After some years, rescuers arrived at the deserted island to find the man had set up farms, shelter, and modern amenities. He had even cobbled together a server out of fragments of wreckage and was self-hosting two single-user fediverse instances on VMs running Alpine Linux.

"But what is the second one for?" the rescuers asked. "Are you running glitch-soc, or trying out Calckey, or what?"

"Oh," said the man proudly, "that is the instance I refuse to federate with."

(The original joke, if you don't know it, is no. 2 on this list: https://forward.com/schmooze/421730/the-10-best-most-classic-jewish-jokes/)

Seriously, though, the #meta is over the instance simcha.gay/simcha.lgbt defederating from babka.social, another Jewish instance. the announcement: https://simcha.gay/notes/9h9ji15xigz8yctv

a user posted a link to a satirical article (tw: transphobia https://preoccupiedterritory.substack.com/p/use-my-pronouns-also-i-override-the) that likens western leftists calling all Arabs in Israel & the Palestinian territories "Palestinian" as akin to trans people demanding gender-neutral pronouns and claiming there is a trans genocide, implying both are attention-seeking ploys for political convenience.

(this echoes various pro-Israel arguments that "Palestinians" are not really a thing that existed before the establishment of the state of Israel, and that Arabs are well-treated in Israel and self-styled Palestinians are just angry Jew-hating holdouts who simply need to reject their leadership and become Israeli to access rights and equitable treatment.)

so basically a double whammy, virulent transphobia and an attempt to erase Palestinians/paper over existing inequalities and increasing anti-Arab violence in Israeli society.

the babka team deleted the post without disciplining the user, which simcha did not consider sufficient, so they defederated.

then babka announced they would also defederate because of harassment and bullying from simcha admins (https://babka.social/@babka/110726254078880716 / https://archive.is/ieFqJ). needless to say, simcha denies this. the babka team has not gone into specifics or produced receipts/logs.

The 10 Best, Most Classic Jewish Jokes

Jokes told by Jews, about Jews, that celebrate rather than discriminate against Jews.

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@nev just sitting here in the sun thinking how nice it is that i dont moderate a large instance anymore
@hannah @nev "never again moderating any social situation larger than roughly the number of humans who can fit around a reasonably sized campfire" is a personal decision i have never once had cause to regret.
@brennen @nev in my defense it was pretty small when i started

@hannah
> in my defense it was pretty small when i started

A lot of fediverse server admins seem to labour under the misapprehension they're obliged to have open sign-ups, and to keep them open even when they're being overwhelmed by newbies (not to mention spammers, trolls etc).

#PublicServiceMessage: They're not.

It's perfectly legitimate to make new accounts invite-only from Day 1, or to close signups when your population reaches whatever size you consider manageable.

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@brennen @nev

@strypey i'm going to gently suggest that no one in this thread is in need of a lecture on these particular topics.

@brennen
> i'm going to gently suggest that no one in this thread is in need of a lecture on these particular topics

It was a general information post, which is why I made it public. Had it been directed at you specifically, your @handles would have been at the start. I included them at the end as a courtesy, since the post tumbled out of your thread. Apologies if it seemed like I was teaching Grandma to such eggs : (

@strypey s'ok. this sort of thing just gets kind of noisy in the mentions. have a good one. :)

@brennen
> this sort of thing just gets kind of noisy in the mentions

Hmm. True 😁