keplerI've noticed I have a bit of a subconscious checklist before I respond to people on here now.
Check their littles age.
3a. If smol, check their diaper.
Ghosty@kepler That is very sweet
@GhostyCub Nothing is more validating than when someone meets all those for you ;^;
@kepler It really is and it speaks highly for you. A lot of people don't really bother with it.
And it is not only the gender identity (which is the most important thing to establish a base respect for each other, especially is somebody is not Cis. That goes without saying).
But honestly, getting the little age right is such a great bonus.
Personally I'm getting pretty annoyed if people keep calling me 'baby' because that is not what I am in littlespace. Not what pushes the right buttons or what makes me happy.
And it is not only the gender identity (which is the most important thing to establish a base respect for each other, especially is somebody is not Cis. That goes without saying).
But honestly, getting the little age right is such a great bonus.
Personally I'm getting pretty annoyed if people keep calling me 'baby' because that is not what I am in littlespace. Not what pushes the right buttons or what makes me happy.
@GhostyCub I tend to default to "kiddo" when I can because it's more inclusive and harder to accidentally step on someone's toes. Kiddo is like my version of they/them ;p
Kvikk@kepler @GhostyCub Kiddo is the best way to describe me! :D
@kvikk @GhostyCub Awwr, thanks for letting me know, kiddo :3