Dude, I went back to Reddit and it's sad.

All you have are the wholesome-chasers, the gender essentialists gossiping about what's proper to each gender, and--because there's a vacuum in the popular algorithm--sports fans with their inside jokes. And I hate sports.

Maybe don't shit on your free labor, perhaps.

@nonlinear one of the biggest things I think we could be learning from both #Twitter & #Reddit recently is how different everyone's experiences on those platforms really was.

While my experience on Reddit mirrors yours in many ways, (I think) we've already covered how my Twitter interactions really didn't change that much at all from pre Musk. I left there on principle.

Thanks(?) to her selective participation, my wife basically didn't even notice the reddit blackout.

@phpete @nonlinear You left twitter, but your interactions there haven’t changed? :)

@orcinus @nonlinear yes, while my interactions there didn't change at the time of the takeover/gutting, I left on principle.

I've kept up many casual conversational ties here on mastodon, and have kept up the search for a replacement to my other Twitter use cases.

@phpete @orcinus are we gatekeeping digital diaspora?

diaspora is experienced differently by each of us. it's like grief.

@nonlinear @orcinus perhaps the consolidation of congregation spaces on the net as a whole will prove to be simply a blip on the timeline of online communication.

Ideally we'll find a way to harness the individuality of our shared experience for the greater good of online life.

I have to work towards that, because I will not be satisfied with my kids (whose lives are online-dependent) being only a product of a broken system.

🤔 (I got a little off track there)

@phpete @orcinus and yup. i'd say individuality is the issue with this (shall we say) 2nd wave social media. we always met one another with social context. now we're forced to explain ourselves constantly because removed of context, and that's exhausting.