@Jedigirl My father once called me up to tell me that he saw a "man wearing a dress." He obviously wanted me to reply "this is surely the collapse of society!!!" Instead I said "So?"
My father asked me if I'd wear a dress. I told him that it wasn't for me, but I wasn't going to judge someone if that's what they wanted to do.
I'm Jewish. I've never felt threatened by a trans person. You know who has threatened me? Christians who insisted that I HAD to convert & Nazi lovers who wanted me to die.