I’m not looking to join blue sky yet for my own reasons but also this is accurate plus the way black folks were first treated here by some of the biggest instances explain the appeal.
Even I, as a terminally online person, still couldn’t engage with mastodon in any meaningful way till I got @ivory because the out of the box UX is so shoddy.

@dbsmasher @ivory @film_girl Ouch. Suscribed to ivory myself. It‘s just nice.

But dissing free software someone offered on their free time. Sounds pretty abusive in my ears.

@icing @dbsmasher @ivory I like @IceCubesApp a lot too! But I’m not going to apologize for stating that it took the good iOS developers (and the web devs behind things like Elk) to make Mastodon worth using for me. Just b/c something is free doesn’t mean I have to pretend it doesn’t have deficiencies, esp. when it has been clear for years that UX was not a priority.
@film_girl @dbsmasher @ivory @IceCubesApp Sure, valid. Just disagree with using "shoddy". Seems unnecessary.
@icing @film_girl @dbsmasher If you don’t have an appetite for harsh criticism, running a social network is a mistake. Users make less kind comments about smaller issues all the time.
@icing @film_girl @dbsmasher I don’t think an end-user complaining about a bad experience is abusive, unless they’re tagging you, constantly sending you emails and being a dingus about it.