Periodic reminder that "introvert" is not a synonym for "shy" or "bad at public speaking." We can talk to random strangers, we can speak to large audiences. It just exhausts us.
@design_law my in-laws were confused and upset when I closed the door to our bedroom after holding court during Thanksgiving dinner. Apparently "I'm not shy, I'm exhausted" was difficult for a family of extroverts to understand.

@halfcocked @design_law

It's very easy to *make* them understand. Force them to be alone in their room for 4+ hours. When they bitch and moan about it you tell them "that's exactly how NOT having alone time makes me feel."