TheWitchPunk 
ab78702@thewitchpunk I use Element/Matrix (https://element.io/) instead of Discord nowadays.
Element | Secure collaboration and messaging
Element is a Matrix-based end-to-end encrypted messenger and secure collaboration app. It’s decentralised for digital sovereign self-hosting, or through a hosting service such as Element Matrix Services. Element operates on the open Matrix network to provide interoperability and easy connections.
@ab78702 Matrix doesn't seem to have voice calls.
@thewitchpunk ah, good point. perhaps a combination of element and jitsi (https://jitsi.org/) might work?
