Have you read this? It made me wonder how I managed to adult in the minimal capacity I could in my 20s & on - which consisted, tbh, in drinking too much #alcohol (a source of #dopamine & lowered #anxiety).

But I’m thinking more on how to best guide & support my kids (though without some of the punitive ideas like charging rent, the author is a dinosaur from the 60s).

https://www.additudemag.com/grow-up-already-why-it-takes-so-long-to-mature/

https://whatwasidoingagain.com/adhd-asides/adhd-maturing/

Grow Up Already! Why It Takes So Long to Mature

The school-to-work transition can take longer for young adults with ADHD, who don't mature at the same pace as their peers. Here's how parents can nudge without pushing.

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@arpcomics incidentally 35 is exactly the age when i got diagnosed with ADHD