@helplessduck
By showing them the other ways forward and coaxing the recoverables into recovery.
The problem with these conversations (I don't mean ours, I mean the world stage one we're discussing) is that they span years/decades. These issues didn't start with DeSantis, or Trump, or Bush, or even Reagan. This is all flowing back through time as things slowly started to pivot. Reagan nudged it, so did Bush, etc. but people tend to attach on the one name, point an accusatory finger and then stand there waiting for applause when they properly isolated one of the root causes.
It's not that they aren't right - it's that it's not the ONLY problem. It's almost a single-issue problem, but the causes and symptoms and all the other stuff boil down to a very dangerous point. We have people in the country who now believe everything said above and worse. They didn't start out that way - they started like we did. But they were nudged the other direction.
We need to unravel the hate. Provide transparent and whole solutions, calmly look the monster in its eyes and patiently triage the abuse to reduce as much damage as possible while rescuing survivors.
You might not convince 39 yr old "Billy the Hate guy" but you might help the family Billy is infecting. You might give Billy's optics the proper framing so he can't continue to hurt people and you can certain remove his ability to continue hurting others.
@flexghost