Don't like strangers busting into your mentions to give unsolicited opinions?

This could be solved if the Fediverse had better comment controls.

You should be able to make a read-only post if you want.

And you should be able to make a public post that's only writeable to followers.

You should also be able to lock a thread if it becomes a vector for abuse.

"Just make locked posts" is the worst response to this because that so-called "solution" basically tells people to reduce their visibility.

Many people don't want their visibility to be reduced.

However, they want a reduction in harassment.

In fact, much of the "I don't want search to exist" crowd exists due to lack of comment control.

People don't want to be found on search because they can't control the potential replies that might occur through a search vector.

I know this because plenty of the anti-search crowd wants public visibility -- but they don't want harassment.

No, a public post doesn't mean "talk to me".

Public means "publicly visible".

It's about being *read*.

Reading is different from writing.

Just as there's different settings for visibility, there should be different settings for replying.

On Mastodon, there's different visibility settings. They are:

* Public
* Unlisted
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

I think you could largely apply this to reply settings as well.

Except, reply settings could be:

* Public
* Local-only
* Follower-only
* Mentioned people only

If there were a way to prevent comments through search results, that would be good too.

It's funny. Regarding potential comment control on the Fediverse, people who are "pro" and "con" tend to be divided along gender lines.

Dudes tend to not want comment control 🤔

But there's a lot of women who very much want this feature. Many of them are DMing me privately to express support -- and that should tell you everything.

This entire thread is literally reply guys who are sad about a possibility that they might not be able to reply 😆

But seriously, the reply guy problem on Mastodon is embarrassing.

And it really puts a dent in the whole argument that Mastodon has got rid of social media toxicity.

Of course, that's not true. People have been complaining about reply guys for years.

It's becoming so bad that "Well, akshually..." has become a Mastodon stereotype.

This is why it's better to have more moderation tools, not less.

This reply guy thinks he's "literally entitled to harass".

No, he's not.

@atomicpoet As much of an asshole as this guy definitely comes off, you took their words out of context to mean something other than what they actually said.
The point of that statement was to draw comparison to the fact that disagreement is tantamount to harassment, as you probably feel about me for commenting on your dozens of public posts.

@haelos I'm not taking anything out of context. In fact, I screenshot the whole post.

The guy wrote "I'm literally entitled to harass".

@atomicpoet Okay, what about the rest of the sentence, which you cut off prematurely?
What does that mean?
@[email protected] even if you include that, the point of view stands.
My page, my rules. If I have a bunch of people over to my house, and you talk shit about me, I can kick you out. You're not entitled to stay in my house merely because I can put on a magical blindfold and earmuffs to drown you out while you continue to talk trash about me. If you want to talk trash about me in your own house, or over at your friends' place, that's outside of my control. But I can choose not to go over to your house, and my friends and anybody else can also make the choice as to whether they visit your house or places you and your friends choose to talk trash about me.
@hugo Pressing mute is literally the digital equivalent of kicking someone outta your house.
Your metaphor fell as flat as a Natural G String.

@haelos
Either I misunderstand how the function works or we're misunderstanding each other.
Muting a thread stops me from seeing notifications for the thread. Muting an individual means I no longer see their content. It does not stop the user from participating in the conversation and posting further comments that are seen by others.

Hence my analogy of a blindfold and earmuffs that means I and only I stop hearing that person. I'm simply no longer aware of their existence in my house (my thread/discussion), but they're still at the party and able to converse with everyone else there.

@hugo Nope, we are no longer part of the original thread we started in.
Notice how neither of us continue to tag OP past the first post.
Is as though you have guests out on your sidewalk hanging out with the person you just kicked out, if you want to keep the metaphor going.

@haelos this is the sequence, outside of my particular view (not logged in anywhere), that anybody who drops into the thread sees. Your convo with OP started around https://mastodon.social/@atomicpoet/109972804870877889 (first screenshot), which is the URL visited for everything I'm describing here. There's the chatter between the two of you next. If I join the party there, and follow the conversation, I see the full thread of conversations from there on (third screenshot) which will include this post I'm making here.

If OP mutes the thread or mutes your account, how does that dynamic change? Is there still an avenue for users other than OP to continue to see your further comments coming from the context of the original thread? If so, from a user controls behaviour that's a crap experience.

@hugo OP blocked or muted me, so we can no longer see eachother. I cannot see that part of the thread anymore, and I assume they cant see me. I cannot reply to them even if I manage to see them. You'll have to ask thom if they can see your half of this current convo.
As far as I'm aware, to them regardless of repurcussions its as though I no longer exist.
The most I can do is stir up their other posters if they first reply to me, as you did.
@haelos which is exactly my point and was exactly what I intended with the analogy in the first place. OP can't see or hear you, but the rest of the world that showed up to the party at his house (his thread) can. You're still in his party, just invisible to him alone. This whole discussion between you and I is still connected through and visible to the world starting from the context of OP's thread. If I'm kicking someone out of my house, I want them gone, not still talking to my guests behind my back. If you want to start your own party then I can't stop you, and anybody who wants to go to your party (including the folks at mine) can choose to go your party, but that's not the user experience going on here.
@hugo Nope, as my (better) metaphor (not an analogy, you're using that word wrong) explained, it's as though I'm standing on the curb, and you're on the porch, and we're yelling to cover the distance.
You HAD to instigate me first. Again, I cannot see anything from OP. The problem you want to exist literally doesn't, it's been solved already.
Learn how the internet work kiddo.
I've been awake for 65 hours so I'm going to take a nap. If you have a new argument, I might justify you with a response
@haelos @hugo you don't understand the fediverse

@Natanael_L @hugo No, I understand FOSS. Fediverse is the dumbest word I've ever heard and the fact you people use it unironically to describe your tech is sad and pathetic. I've never even looked up a single thing about how this place works.
Renaming basic things that already exist to convoluted bullshit is a pretty big problem with every new tech that comes out.
Probably explain why I prefer literally anywhere else and how it took so long for me to get here.

Tldr: cry some fuckin moré, kiddo

@haelos @hugo Tldr I can tell you never looked up a single thing about how this works.

The current activitypub model (fediverse) is essentially a gossip protocol. Muting people or banning them from one server has no effect beyond your local view. If some asshat stalker comments on your posts and you block them, your friends can still see their replies here. That's a problem. If you don't understand why that's a problem, you're part of the problem.

@haelos @hugo if you don't understand that different content distribution models and different interaction models are named differently because they have differences which actually matter to real life humans, then you don't actually understand things as well as you think you do.

@haelos @hugo you also have a ridiculous view of human interactions, beyond the deep misunderstanding of how federated communication works, so I'm not going to waste much time trying to convince you.

The fact that you call normal interaction with friends "instigation" when some idiot comes searching for posts to reply with hate to makes it blatantly clear that you do not have any interest in healthy online communities.

@Natanael_L @[email protected] All I see is a buncha angry yelling. Hard to care about any of the words supposedly written there.
When your vibe is so gross that it leaks through the internet, you need to get yourself checked.
Keep telling me I'm the problem, but don't forget to hold up a mirror every now and again 😂
I stopped reading at tldr.
@haelos so you're just confirming you think harassment is OK, got it