@unclepj @Rasta For many years, I thought the "smart" adults got to the top of businesses and organisations.
After becoming an external business advisor, I can honestly say that the handful of genuinely smart folk I met were rare beasts, and even more rarely in charge of said companies and organisations. The ones at the top were usually poor, often aware of that, but never listened to advice.
Evidence? Musk, IBM, HP, DEC, Ford, etc etc.
OMG! I KNOW! I took special courses and training in ISO Quality Systems. It costs companies 10s of thousands to send key employees on these course, expected to return and enhance the business with some quality methods. Some cheap companies (Airlines) sent only their CEO to take the course, they'd be self-policing their own non-compliances. Anyway. I'd never worked in Teams with CEOs before. I don't know how they dressed themselves, they must have inherited a business. DUMB
And imagine my surprise when I realized I was smarter than my dad and my mother's criticisms came from ignorance and jealousy!
TBF, they got married in their teens and really did not know a damned thing, but when you are a kid, it takes a while for you to learn the truth.
@unclepj not only are we (adults) not smart, we've been trained for years to believe, individually, that we're the only ones in room whose opinion matters.
It was pointed out to me how common and popular the "only same man" trope is in media. I can recognize now how it's a kind of vigorous stroking and caressing of the viewer/reader/listener's ego.
Now excuse me while I go back to enjoying listening to the original Broadway cast recording of Hamilton.