there's a "what managers see in a good engineer" post

and at least this time around only a handful of them are things that have gotten me fired

i think my favourite thing on the list is "a good engineer gives good estimates"

but being able to give good estimates is directly correlated to the type of work the manager assigns you

estimates which you're often pressured into reducing, both casually and explicitly

and the truth is, being late only really matters when your work has low margins or low payoff

one of the other pieces of advice is "fix what's frustrating other teams"

which, well, is something i've done, repeatedly, and something i've been told not to do, repeatedly

i still think about the manager who told me i was underperforming

while my coworkers, in the same meeting, explained that my work was the only reason their stuff shipped on time

without trying to turn this into a power structure analysis

the problem with advice from managers is that it's often a list of things they can get away with, or got away with as senior engineers before making the leap

this list of "advice for engineers" is better framed as "what a good manager should look for"

because a bad one will still punish you anyway, especially if you show any form of autonomy or agency

at the end of the day the advice i'd give is "don't do anything that would embarrass your manager"

be it "correcting them in a meeting" or "doing work that succeeded despite them telling you not to"

or more importantly, "anything that makes them look bad to their bosses" or "anything that undermines their power over the team"

and advice for a good manager? who needs advice, they're actually going to help you succeed

truthfully, and a little bit flippantly

a lot of career advice often ends up a bit "i won the lottery, let me tell you about the hard work i did to get there"

if you want good career advice, it'll often come from people who've been on a PIP

they'll be able to tell you their mistakes, the ones to avoid—rather than a list of things that just worked out for them

@tef I try, very hard, to remember to tell less senior team members, and especially new hires, that they can not get away with the shit that I do. I have a couple decades of credibility, ex team members that are now senior managers, and I like being in an IC role and think of my TL as working for me.

Even so, I really really really try not to burn my TL or the project manager.

Except once. I was being pulled out to work on a different disaster, and spilled everything on the exit. Glorious.

@Sdowney @tef Survivorship bias is amazing to see over and over again. Almost seems game-able.
@invisv @tef As a lottery winner I have recommendations about picking powerball numbers. The learnings from this talk will be actionable....
@tef my favorite career advice was from someone who was like I got really lucky- it has nothing to do with merit.

@tef I, having been fired many times at this point in my career, am currently trying my hardest to tell one of my colleagues who has never been fired that he's almost certainly on a crash course with unemployment.

I hope to god I am right, because I am about to give some very strong advice in a very uncertain labour market. 😐

Thank you for your vote of faith in me, drifting through the internet.

@tef I can tell you that you’re definitely better off making your public profile under your real name. Things are so much easier when you have a real name.

Also, don’t talk to journalists until you’ve had media training.

@thegrugq @tef Now I just have to learn what media training is.

@xenotrope @tef you’re in luck! A decade ago I had the same questions

https://www.tumblr.com/grugq/59322112195/media-training-is-an-opsec-skill

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As I've said before, journalists perform the role of intelligence officers for OSINT products. The similarities are more clear when you examine the editorial cycle alongside the intelligence cycle, b…

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@thegrugq @tef The lyf so short, the craft so long to learn.
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@tef Failure teaches you more than success.

I've been one swing ahead of the sword on multiple occasions. It's either been a personality conflict guised as "you should consider a different position" or a "you aren't a fit for this team but I can see you contributing elsewhere." And then I luck into a better job, but not before having learned more about how I don't like to work.

@tef @StabbyCutyou this resonates--I got a very lucky break in starting my career early and on the right foot. I made a few very risky bets and they all worked, but if I saw my kids trying the same things that I did, I would be terrified.