How do my #ActuallyAutistic comrades feel when at a restaurant and the food takes wayyyyy longer than expected to come out?

#AskingAutistics #AutisticFoodies

@theautisticcoach Outsize worry that they've lost my order or forgotten me combined with fear of being rude or causing problems for somebody who can't help the situation anyway if I say anything. A strong desire for a simple chart to tell me whether or not there's likely to be an actual problem I need to address or if it will be fine if I just keep waiting.