Love it how when I establish a boundary I always have to feel bad about it. When I let it slip i feel bad for not standing up for myself, when I insist I feel bad because I had to take something from someone. Fucking traumatic upbringing. There is no way to not feel shit when dealing with this.
Summarily, this is one of these days I wish I had a mother or father to be all wise and caring, but alas...
@iyalei Yeah… that tracks. I'm so sorry.
@iyalei I’m so sorry Anya. I had a lot of similar struggles when I started setting boundaries with people but over time it’s gotten a bit easier… I hope that you can overcome these feelings and feel more comfortable with setting your boundaries and sticking to them 💜
@iyalei I know this feeling so much. It's really hard to set boundaries.
@iyalei yeah and the worst thing is that even if you establish such a boundary it cannot be once and for ever. You need to keep establishing it all the time because some can't respect it.