Anya🏳️🌈✨Love it how when I establish a boundary I always have to feel bad about it. When I let it slip i feel bad for not standing up for myself, when I insist I feel bad because I had to take something from someone. Fucking traumatic upbringing. There is no way to not feel shit when dealing with this.
ukuk@iyalei yeah and the worst thing is that even if you establish such a boundary it cannot be once and for ever. You need to keep establishing it all the time because some can't respect it.
@ukuk oof yeah