I looked under my 9 year old's pillow and found a coding magazine. Turns out he's been reading it in class, skipping recess to read it in secret, getting in trouble with his teacher for reading it during group project time, and even pretending to read a textbook with the coding magazine inside.

I can't even yell at him because I told him the Mark Twain wisdom to "Never let your schooling interfere with your education."

And he's taking it to heart. Sigh...

@QasimRashid 😁Time & Place, but great that he’s keen.
@QasimRashid I love this. He's finding his way. Good job dad!
@QasimRashid I remember when I caught my young daughter reading by the light of the clock by her bed when she was supposed to be asleep. So I left and came back with a flashlight. To this day she loves reading books.
@joshmend @QasimRashid Same. My son is 23 and is still a bookworm. I never imagined ever having to tell him to put a book away to do homework.
@QasimRashid Oh my. That would be me right there in 1968. If I were you, I'd be elated, but that's me.
@QasimRashid : Watch it, they start withthe easy stuff and next thing you know, they’re mainlining machine code. I’m a retired SW Engineer, so I know.

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Sign him up for a camp or after school class dad!!

This is amazing. I wish my parents would have found ways to nurture the things I was passionate about.

You should be so proud to be raising such an intellectually curious kid. 🥰

@ProdigalHoosier @QasimRashid My dad spent my formative years trying to nurture things he was passionate about. So one day I got a lecture that began "Let's talk about vectors..."
@toxtethogrady @ProdigalHoosier @QasimRashid Haha this reminds me of the time my Dad made me write a paper on Thermal Conductivity because I failed a science test.
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This should make Christmas shopping SO FUN! How old is he? What magazine was he reading? You should cross post to Twitter and tag the magazine!
@QasimRashid Actually, your child shows great promise as learned knowledge can not replace curiousity and the ability to be self taught is invaluable. In short, I suspect you have the problem of a gifted child .and our educational systems are not designed for that .Keep on doing whatever your doing while respecting your child in the process
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The smart ones are the hardest.
@QasimRashid this week is the global Hour of Code. Have him check out www.hourofcode.com for some fun.
@QasimRashid nurture his passion. It is very fortunate when your child finds something that they love

@QasimRashid I was homeschooled and I taught myself to code while my dad was talking to customers.

Knowing how to code has served me much better than the "education" I was skipping out on did.

I use my coding in my work today.

All I use the racist history lessons I learned for is to recall that I learned about the Montgomery Bus Boycott from a movie, not from my history textbooks.

@QasimRashid As important as schooling is - finding a passion is what will make life , living. Even coding 😂
@QasimRashid That's impressive and your willingness to support him is fantastic as well. I used to get grounded for "reading all the time and asking too many questions"
@QasimRashid Homeschooling can be a wonderful thing. 😂
@QasimRashid show him Advent of Code! https://adventofcode.com/
Advent of Code 2025

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Parent here of a sharp-as-a-tack kid who's deciding to drop out of college. NO idea what to tell you. Maybe "don't have kids until you're sure"? But even that isn't necessarily valid.

Yes, tooting to myself, so what?

@QasimRashid Plot twist: it gives instructions on how to code an ASCII picture of boobs.
@QasimRashid Wasn't there a famous Broadway musical where a bunch of gangs met up but instead of using weapons like knives they all tried to outcode each other ?
@QasimRashid This kid is going places. Keep convincing him the coding is forbidden and he'll be a top-tier hacker by age 12.

@QasimRashid I spent most of my time in high school marking up listings in class, rushing to the nearest university campus, running my cards through, catching the last bus home and doing the same the next day.

Half a century later pretty much the same story. Rock on, kid.

@QasimRashid parenting. You’re doing it right.

That said, he should read Huckleberry Finn. 😉

@QasimRashid I would give my left arm if my youngest did that!

@QasimRashid I was this kid.

I learnt to type because I'd have to wait for everyone to go to bed and get up and jump on the computer. I couldn't turn lights on because I'd get caught.

When I wagged, I'd go to the city library and catch up on assignments.

When I wasn't sleeping or on the computer, I was reading and I only slept a few hours each night.

Even when I had lost interest in a class, I'd use the time to do homework for other classes (leaving me more reading time).

@QasimRashid First grade. Test on how many boats. There were five. Stupid test! I wadded up the test and threw it in my desk. Many "stupid" tests followed. Somewhere along the line, having dismissed math, I needed the teaching. Irony is, my career was math related. I really should have paid more attention in school. That's the wisdom I needed.
@QasimRashid leave it be. He’s on a good path. Let it be his secret.
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I might be a tad bit proud if he were my son. I admire his chutzpah!
@QasimRashid That is true dedication. He follows his bliss.
@QasimRashid Good for him. I was always getting in trouble in school for "daydreaming" by looking out of the window. In reality, I was thinking hard. I now work in a university and teaching computer science teachers. Daydreaming and sneaky reading served me well.
@QasimRashid I did that as too. It made parent-teacher conferences a challenge. How do you tell parents that their kid is reading too much?
@QasimRashid Was it Fortran? Because my office is always looking for Fortran coders, no matter their age!
@QasimRashid love it! More useful than my 9 year old ( decades ago) doing the same tricks to learn Klingon.

@QasimRashid just remind him that life is balance & he needs both.
That what he’s learned in school gave him the ability to read about his passion.

Also…bravo that he’s found his “flow” at 9yrs 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽

@QasimRashid yeah I don't want to pretend to know more about parenting than you, but Mark Twain was talking about power structures and systematically untold stories. I don't think he would feel good about your son alienating himself and not following directions.

I only say this because *I* did that. I thought because my reading level was so high, I was just exempt from the curriculum, and you know what? I let myself down because the stuff taught in a third-grade classroom has to come first.

@QasimRashid I don't want to shoot either of you down or anything, but this statement is *not* the contentious one and it hasn't been for a long time. you don't even want to know how much your son's teacher loves Mark Twain. (I grew up in Missouri)

since I'm being dramatic, though, I would encourage you to take a second to look at my life before you keep riding that train. all it makes is a costly idiot with the dumbest challenges.

@QasimRashid Ooh, which coding magazine? My 9-year-old really wants to learn!

@QasimRashid when I was 10, I used to carry around a composition notebook which my nerdy friend and I would fill with Commodore-64 BASIC to type in later. Thirty-some-odd years later, it’s served me well!

But it might have been a good idea to actually do school work at the time, too...

@QasimRashid He’s going to be absolutely totally fine! 👍🏼👍🏼
@QasimRashid Same with our 12-year old grandson. Now to persuade some daughters to go there
@QasimRashid GOOD for him!! Get him more of those mags! And tell that teacher to never discourage him from reading.
@QasimRashid 😂😂😂😂- this is the best!! Something my niece has been doing.
@QasimRashid I praise you for being that parent for allowing your child to learn.
@QasimRashid coding camp. There are many out there.

@QasimRashid Reminds me of how confused I used to get when my eldest would ruin his appetite for dinner by pigging out on healthy veggies and fruit all afternoon. You kinda can't get mad, but it still ruins dinner. :-P

Just remember there are much worse parenting woes out there.

@QasimRashid I'd suggest providing the tools such as programming languages and a computer (with GOOD ANTI-VIRUS) that is Windows 11 capable. It doesn't have to be new or fast.
@QasimRashid I [not wearing my glasses] read that as you found a “coding nightmare” under the pillow, and thought you were overreacting a little, since 9 isn’t really old enough to have bad coding practices hardened into a habit.
@QasimRashid A wiser choice of rebellion than mine at that age, sneak-reading science fiction and Alfred Hitchcock anthologies.