Message to all educators....

If there's a student (child or adult) who is often late attending their classes, or getting to school...

Please don't tell them off and punish or ridicule them as a knee-jerk reaction.

Dig deeper

The fact that they've turned up at all will usually be a strong indication that they've tried very hard to get there.

They could have difficulties with:

- Some of their executive functions (organising, planning, time management, prioritisating, working memory)
- Anxiety about certain aspects of attending school/college/uni (bullying, social interaction with students/teachers who don't understand their communication differences, differences in learning styles)
- Difficulties at home
- Poor sleep
- Difficulties with home environment
- Poverty

Please be curious, gentle and explore their reasons why they're late and work with them.

We often don't see the immense effort the person, and their families go through, just to get them there 5 or 10 minutes late.

To sum up....

Be kind, aporoachable and non-judgemental....both to the student and their caregivers.

To paraphrase Dr Ross Greene,

A person does well if they can.
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@OT_Expert

One of my HS teachers damn near failed me because I was late every morning.

I had no idea at the time I had ADHD and autism and trauma disorders and deprexity though I did deal with bullying that was incessant for the first 10+ years of school.

It feels to this day he had specific antipathy for me.

I need to pass that class, and I had a damned teacher bullying powerless me that was invisibly struggling.

Ironically, at university, half of my degree was in his subject, history.

@Aphrodite I'm really sorry you had to go through though experiences, I hope you're in a better place now ❤️

@OT_Expert

In every way but financially, I am. :)