You don't have to let Mastodon become Twitter 2.0.

If you see certain people bringing bad habits, here are your options by order of severity:

1. DM them about social etiquette
2. Call out their bad behaviour
3. Block their account
4. Report bad behaviour to instance admins
5. Block their instance
6. Put their instance on Fediblock

Also remember: unlike birdsite, nobody is entitled to your attention!

@atomicpoet you forgot "use the report function to report them to your (and optionally their) instance admins if they're violating instance rules"
@tw That is true. This is yet another option.

@atomicpoet

0. Lead by example

Not everyone is malicious, just in a rut.

@breadbin @atomicpoet

Very much agree. I see this as an extension of the original point 1. Some are genuinely bad actors, of course, but for many it's simply a matter of unreflected habits and not bad intention.

If someone is known to me from the other site and I constructively point them to more cooperative ways of engaging, very often they are willing to try it out. I point them to other twitter migrants that have adopted mastodon conventions and they can see that it works.

@the_roamer @atomicpoet To tell you the truth I do not really know if I’m a good citizen or not yet. I’m just generally trying to be friendly, try to grasp the tech (ok got 20+ years of professional experience there, so cheating), and use the tools I have.

Hopefully I get better at it in time. Still haven’t made much use of lists and the likes for instance.

@breadbin @atomicpoet

I arrived here 3 weeks ago and spent lots of time on absorbing the mastodon conventions, working out how they play together to form a cooperative conversation culture.

It has been such an eye-opening experience --- suddenly I can use a "micro-blogging site" in a way that feels right, rather than having to fight the system.

Reminds me of the time, decades ago, when I switched to writing in TeX/Latex, rather than MS Word. Suddenly the tool fits the way want to use it.

@breadbin @atomicpoet

Yes, Lists are still to be included in my process. Essential if one wants to replace "the algorithm" by a self-controlled access to the timeline.

Without Lists, what arrives on my Home timeline is pre-sifted by my choice of Follows, but given the volume it is still rather random.

There is beauty in that randomness, too, though. A bit like querying the I Ching and getting a random answer that impacts on your life. One need not control everything. Love the unexpected.

@the_roamer @atomicpoet Maybe we need a mutation setting for the home feed. Include 1% random toots from anyone.

Then again that’s a crap shoot. Sometimes you get a an evolutionary advantage, sometimes you get sick.

@breadbin @atomicpoet

Creating the right mix of order and randomness is very much my aim. Easy to insert extra randomness by a daily visit to my Local timeline, always surprising & refreshing!

@atomicpoet or grow up and out troll them like in the good days of the internet. Let's not all hide in our bubbles, that just causes more division. We need to get out and wrastle our neighbors
@neonfire Nope, if you wrestle in shit, you end up smelling like shit.
@neonfire @atomicpoet Please, no. Would hate for this place to become Twitter2.

@atomicpoet I know they felt like it there, but I don't think anyone actually was.

I am waiting with glorious compose for the " I follow you because you talk about X, I don't want to hear about Y" crowd.

@atomicpoet I don't owe anyone education. I'll just do like I did over there where my blocklist is at 25k and going strong. I don't engage with jerks the way I also don't engage with having my time imposed on. I owe nothing to anyone but my child and my spouse. Everyone else should just try to be a decent person and then we wouldn't even be having this discourse.
@raantuva Yes, this is what I mean by "no one is entitled to your attention". Do what's best for your own self-care.
@atomicpoet Oh I see. I guess that wasn't clear. Thanks. :)

@atomicpoet

I do think that people should always ask if it's OK to dm first.

Thanks for your post @atomicpoet. I'm new to both platforms and you may safely assume that I know nothing.

What would you say are some of the bad behaviors that occur on Twitter that we'd like not to repeat here?