Just a thought, directed to the wrong people, but anyone who professes to want to be supportive and better understand the experience of marginalized folks and make things easier for them would be really well-served and probably learn a lot by listening and incorporating the local culture/etiquette tips being flung around, which are literally telling you what works.

If you want the fun culture tips as well, we will teach you, and create new with you. But the CW and checking profiles for preferences about contact and stuff IS supporting marginalized folks, that's where those customs came from and we finesse the heck out of them regularly.