@annieversary I do too much stewing already, especially lately. So I'm trying Lex Fridman's approach: imagine the offensive situation as the result of faulty human(s) that might have done better if they had had loving support. So I try to send them #compassion in my mind for the suffering they've likely endured. Then I try to move on by replacing the #stewing with loving thoughts of people/creatures/places/things that you value. When it works it's #empowering. #YMMV