Is it possible to have a #solemate that you aren't attracted to?

Like they could be perfect in every way but there is just something about them that they can't change that you find unattractive...

Ya know maybe I'm thinking of a solemate in the wrong way... in my mind I'm thinking you would date someone that you think of as a solemate.

Like obviously you can be in a relationship and still have a best friend. But can you have a partner and someone else that is a solemate.

#question