If we’re trying to see movement in our work, here’s one of the easiest places to start looking:
Are people connecting?
Are new relationships forming?
Good things tend to grow from there.

#Community #HumanConnection #SlowWork #SocialFabric #RelationalFlow

In this book Lise Lavelle explores Suprapto Suryodarmo’s movement practice »Amerta Movement«, in which movement becomes a path of perception, transformation, and relational presence. Rooted in Javanese spirituality, it invites deep listening to the body in dialogue with space, time, nature and others—beyond performance or fixed roles. Practicing Amerta myself, I find it resonates with my own #relationalflow practice while offering inspiring perspectives on embodied awareness and interconnection.
Council is a ritualised form of communication in which participants sit in a circle, speaking one at a time–often using a “talking piece”–to support honest, attentive dialogue. It emphasises slow, grounded, non-hierarchical interaction and is used in communities, teams, families to build connection, understanding, and shared vision. The book by Jack Zimmerman and Virginia Coyle is a key introduction. Council is an inspiring embodied relational practice, I‘ll join a workshop soon. #relationalflow
Authentic Relating coach Ryel Kestano’s book offers practical tools for deeper, more authentic connection. I found the Witness and Curiosity practices valuable. They encourage presence, empathy, and Deep Listening: attending fully to another without interruption. Though not named explicitly, the book is deeply informed by Focusing and explores a relational approach to communication. Concepts like “own your experience” and “assume nothing” support more honest, embodied dialogue. #relationalflow
David Bedrick is a Process Work psychotherapist. In The Unshaming Way he explores how internalised shame can be transformed through witnessing, body expression, and emotional intelligence. Rather than seeing so-called negative traits or feelings as problems to fix he encourages engaging with them creatively and somatically—via voice, tone, movement, and sound—so their deeper meaning and intelligence can unfold. I like the exercises in the book. It’s one of the best books on PW. #relationalflow

A helpful book on Focusing for therapists. Cornell worked with Gendlin for a long time, then developed her own approach. She presents formulations, typical situations and tips, such as there's no need to explain Focusing to your clients.

“The Focusing process is a way to shift levels, step outside the box of preset categories, and experience one’s own change emerging from within, so that one is already living new possibilities that were exactly what the problem was missing.” #relationalflow

Here Arnold Mindell deals with conflict facilitation of large groups, to expand democracy to "deep democracy". What he calls a "psychosocial activist" is first and foremost an awareness coach who deals with both a community’s material and psychological essence.

"Democracy is based on power. Without awareness, democracy adds to, but does not resolve, world problems. Deep democracy is a new awareness procedure that respects all individuals, parts, and states of consciousness."

#relationalflow

Doran George challenges a eurocentric understanding of the body in contemporary dance and somatic discourse which think of themselves as neutral.

I find this paragraph particularly interesting:

„They shifted from inner sensing to an outward focus and back, thereby challenging the sense of the dancers as a continuous persona. [..] Change in the use of the eyes positioned dancers as social subjects rather than physical masses in the throes of falling or ascending with gravity.“ #relationalflow

I wanted to know more about new developments and applications of Gendlin’s Focusing and came across this anthology by Focusing-oriented psychotherapist Greg Madison.

What I find particularly interesting is Wholebody Focusing’s attention to relational embodiment (Kevin McEvenue) as well as Bernadette Lamboys attempts to use space to facilitate the Focusing process.

Madison has a podcast, The Living Process, in which he interviews Focusing practitioners from all over the world. #relationalflow

Gordon Wheeler ist Gestalttherapeut und am Esalen Institut.

Er arbeitet an einem relationalen Begriff des Selbst, der aus dem Paradigma des Individualismus führt:

»Welche äußere Unterstützung würden Sie brauchen, um zu erreichen / verändern, was Sie erreichen / verändern wollen? Meist sind wir so tief in unserer kulturellen Angewohnheit der extremen Autonomie verfangen, dass es uns gar nicht in den Sinn kommt, dass es mehr Unterstützung gibt, der gegenüber wir nur blind waren.« #relationalflow