FishercatTwo of the three home healthcare workers helping us let my father-in-law die at home are Black women. He's an asshole, and a fucking racist, whose favorite curse includes the n-bomb.
While I think he's unlikely to drop it in their presence, and very unlikely to call them that, I wouldn't put it past him. His cognitive decline makes that more difficult to assess reliably.
Do I give them a heads-up that it might happen, and encourage them to tell us about it, so we can at least make sure there are unpleasant consequences if he does?
If you're Black, and willing to advise if my warning them could be a microagression, I'd be very grateful. Advice from others accepted, too, it just won't be nearly as valuable. Of course.
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