In my work, adult children of #narcissist, #borderline and #histrionic mothers (#ACON) who go #NoContact or #LowContact often have a harder time than clients who’ve done the same with #toxic fathers.

Ending ties with an #AbusiveMom begets a, “but she’s your mother...” social and familial #GuiltTrip and other #ShamingTactics.

Whereas clients who end or limit contact with similarly abusive dads are lauded as brave and as making the healthy choice.

Explains a lot, doesn’t it? (Think family court).

#AbuseHasNoGender #NPD #BPD #HPD