We spend so much time curating pixels, but people? They are the absolute priority. I learned this the hard way from an experience with an ex who could not put his phone down, even during intimate moments.

Giving your pure, undivided attention to the person in front of you is not just polite—it is a profound act of self-respect and respect for others.

You are telling them, "Your energy matters to me more than any notification." In a distracted world, your presence is a truly valuable gift.

Think of it as PurrEssence.

PurrEssence is about recognizing your own resonance. If a person, a place, or an experience makes you "purr" inside, that is your inner system saying, "This is exactly where I am supposed to be."

When you find those moments, honour them by being 100% there. Put the phone down. Breathe. Be.

Hosting an IRL coffee chat on Presence in Vancouver so if you are near or around, join us! RSVP at https://luma.com/purressence

#PurrEssence #HumanConnection #SelfRespect

FediCollective is now PurrEssence.

After FediCon2025, we in Vancouver explored what it means to be "human-kind" in a digital world. As we reach our 9th meeting, our name finally matches our frequency.

I’m happy to introduce PurrEssence: Cozy Chats.

As a cat rescuer, I learned they are masters of consent and regulation. A purr isn't just a sound; it’s a healing frequency.

PurrEssence is built on that same quiet power—where presence is felt, boundaries are respected, and we remember our oneness.

We’re moving toward a restorative "Third Space." Whether you’re a builder, creative, or seeker, you’re welcome here.

What hasn’t changed:
1. Our commitment to social coherence
2. Our sober, inclusive, family-friendly environment
3. Our belief in the Math of Love i.e. 1+1=11 when we show up with self-respect

In presence, the illusion of separation fades. 🏝️ → 🌐

Join our next gathering on Sunday, May 31. I’ll be speaking on the power of Presence.

https://luma.com/3zj908pn

#PurrEssence #SocialCoherence #Vancouver