listening to this podcast, i discovered diamonds, here some:
"-sex is not a drive, like hunger, termoregulation, or connection with other humans. you die of loneliness, but you don't die of lack of sex.
-pleasure is what matters, not frequency. What is important is enjoying the sex you are having, not checking a box.

-folks in heterosexual relationships have fewer orgasms, less variety of sexual experiences, less actual pleasure, they are the less likely to cuddle, to say I love you, to kiss during sex...and yet they have more of it, they have more sex they like less"

#psychology
#MakingPolyamoryWork
#masculinity #EmilyNagoski #LibbySinback
https://www.makingpolyamorywork.com/episodes/maintenance-sex