EmberhartAug 5, 2025

It challenges the belief that our past determines our present. Instead, it suggests that our actions are shaped by the goals we pursue—often unconsciously—in the present moment. https://www.emberhart.com/audio/episode-29-the-goal-behind-your-actions/

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Episode 29. The Goal Behind Your Actions - Emberhart

Why We Do What We Do (And How to Change It. One of the most powerful ideas I came across this year came from The Courage to Be Disliked by Kishimi and Koga, a book rooted in Adlerian psychology. It challenges the belief that our past determines our present. Instead, it suggests that our actions are shaped by the goals we pursue—often unconsciously—in the present moment.

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Show threadTakako 🐀May 3, 2025

@darkrat Lovely rats! 😍❣️

Unrelated, but have you read “The Courage to Be Disliked” by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga? A real game changer of a book for personal growth and better relationships. I recommend it wholeheartedly. Easy to read.

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eAnaFeb 12, 2025
🧠 Adlerian-Anarchist Experiments
Mashup of "Courage to Be Disliked" + TAZ philosophy:
1️⃣ Task separation – Detach growth from social compliance
2️⃣ Imperfectionism – Sabotage grind culture with "enough"
3️⃣ Ephemeral walls – Boundaries that breathe like ecosystems
4️⃣ Self-talk revolution – Topple inner dictatorships
5️⃣ Play-as-weapon – Spontaneity > capitalist scripts Which liberates your psyche?
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#MentalHealth #Anarchism #Psychology
#CourageToBeDisliked #Fediverse
Mathew ThomasSep 23, 2024
#LifeLessons #Book #CourageToBeDisliked
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1. Being happy is a choice
2. Don't live to please others
3. You can't control what others think
4. All problems in current relationships are related to past ones
5. Live in the present
6. Keep yourself accountable
7. Don't focus on validation
8. To change, you need courage
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/books/web-stories/8-life-lessons-to-learn-from-the-japanese-bestseller-the-courage-to-be-disliked/photostory/113310100.cms
​8 life lessons to learn from the Japanese bestseller 'The Courage to be Disliked'

‘The Courage to Be Disliked’, a Japanese bestseller by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga, is a book that teaches important life lessons based on Alfred Adler’s theories on psychology. Here we mention 8 life lessons that are mentioned in the book.

Times of India