@samuelpepys

" ... but am glad to be joyned with them, for I shall learn something of them."

You are a good man, Samuel.

#Pepys #learning #BeingOpen

For the Military To Be All That It Can Be We Need LGBTQ Soldiers | Opinion

As a bisexual woman, I know that policies against queer people do not make us disappear, they determine how much we risk by being open about our identity.

Newsweek
I’m very grateful for #waynehaber to have accepted my request to shadow his activities as #EngineeringDirector at #gitlab in December for one full week. We got our first meeting today. This is so valuable to me. https://about.gitlab.com/handbook/engineering/development/shadow/director-shadow-program.html #mentoring #careerdevelopment #learning #sharing #BeingOpen
Development Director Shadow Program

The development director shadow program provides mentoring, opportunities for learning, and facilitates career development exploration

GitLab

A #LateBloomer's Guide to #Sex --
Nobody is just good at sex. But getting to #knowyourself and #beingopen about your experience will help you get there.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/xgy5zj/guide-to-sex-late-bloomers

A Late Bloomer's Guide to Sex

Nobody is just good at sex. But getting to know yourself and being open about your experience will help you get there.

Bad brain day today.

- Hungry, a plate of food sitting in front of me. I don't feel like I have the energy to eat it.
- Brain fog. I can't concentrate on anything. I'm already tired this far into the toot.
- Need to clean the house but can't drum up motivation for it.
- Need to shower, but the thought is exhausting.
- Want to go to bed and sleep?
- Also restless but tired about it too.
- What is even brains?

#MentalHealth #TalkAboutIt #BeingOpen

Intimacy is a large part of the relationship between my wife and me. The stereotypical roles are reversed, with her wanting sex more than me.

Being on anti-depressants has killed my libido, which was small to begin with. And the deeper my depression, the

I feel guilty that taking care of my own mental health means I cannot satisfy this part of our relationship.

I feel guilty and ashamed of the situation, which worsens the depression.

#struggles #depression #BeingOpen