Shawn WebbI'm struggling today. The numbness of depression took hold a couple weeks ago.
Today, I feel empty inside. Tired and unmotivated.
Recognizing the symptoms, though, is the first step. Perhaps I can lift myself out of this, but it's really hard.
Intimacy is a large part of the relationship between my wife and me. The stereotypical roles are reversed, with her wanting sex more than me.
Being on anti-depressants has killed my libido, which was small to begin with. And the deeper my depression, the
I feel guilty that taking care of my own mental health means I cannot satisfy this part of our relationship.
I feel guilty and ashamed of the situation, which worsens the depression.
I'm hoping that by being more open with my struggles, others who may be in the same situation may find comfort in knowing they're not alone.
I'm also looking for guidance. What can I do to bond with my wife? How can I fulfill her needs without feeling forced?