"Post less sexy images if you want to be taken seriously."
Not advice. A framing tactic. A rhetorical move that shifts the blame for the gaze, how he sees her, his reaction to her, onto her.

It has a name: ad feminam.

New blog on rhetoric, the male gaze, control, and why naming what's happening is where the conversation gets good.

https://reginavantongeren.nl/2026/02/17/ad-feminam-the-friendly-advice-that-isnt/

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