@strange_new_words true, there are some deeply disturbing implications of this and the adherence to tradition and ritual being more important than calling out her racist bullshit.
Some Vulcans need to have a word with themselves. (Did appreciate that T'Prings mother's final speech echoes the Science Council's backhand acceptance of Spock in the 2009 movie)

@strange_new_words it was so much fun wasn't it? I felt for T'Prings father, that guy just wanted to eat more of Pikes food!
For me, I felt probably T'Pring already felt like Spock has this life on Enterprise that she didn't get to share in and when a big thing happens that could have such an impact he still leaves her out but has all his crew involved? From her perspective she accepts all of Spock but he won't let her in so I see where shes coming from.