Soju Hokari 🏳️‍⚧️

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Asian American
📚 Studying Women’s, Gender and Sexuality Studies at Emory University
🥏 Semi-pro Ultimate frisbee player with Atlanta Soul

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Some people have brought up this instance of a white trans woman getting arrested for using the bathroom in Florida, as a counterpoint

Here's the thing: this was a planned protest. Conversely, the Black lesbian using the restroom was just trying to pee, in a non-federal building.

Marcy (the white trans woman) "sent letters earlier in March to Florida lawmakers warning them that she planned to use a specific women’s bathroom in the Capitol and included a photo of herself for identification."

Marcy had a reporter from the Tampa Bay Times accompany her. When she arrived "she was met outside by two officers who said they would try to work with her. Rheintgen decided to use the bathroom anyway."

Only THEN was she arrested.

Meanwhile Kalaya, the Black queer gender nonconfirming woman, was just trying to take a piss and THAT was enough to get the cops sicced on her.

If you can't tell the difference between these two things............

https://www.tampabay.com/news/florida-politics/2025/04/01/florida-trans-bathroom-law-arrest-lgbtq-bill-desantis/

Trans woman arrested for using women’s restroom in Florida Capitol

The 20-year-old college student planned to protest a state law criminalizing bathroom use.

Tampa Bay Times

Now is a perfect time to stop using memes and language that developed on 4chan

We can throw all of it into the grave alongside them

To be fair, I’m not against this legislation. But also I have a hard time with the fact that Northern European countries try to present themselves as the enlightened saviors of trans people lol
Also, this kind of legislation to grant asylum to trans people affects non-white trans people as well: it forces non-white trans people to present in normative white queer ways in order to obtain asylum, reshaping queer identities in the process. I’ve screenshotted a part of Fadi Saleh’s piece titled “Resettlement as Securitization: War, Humanitarianism, and the Production of Syrian LGBT Refugees” below.

lol given the anti-immigrant sentiments of much of Europe these days, I have to imagine that the people behind this see trans people as mostly a white Western phenomenon, and I’m SO HYPED for when they find out that actually most of us are not white lolololol.

https://fed.brid.gy/r/https://bsky.app/profile/did:plc:rq7xbu4hwwgqjbssglnjxv4h/post/3lmiorp46ak23

Jeras Ikehorn… 😎 🌊🐾🌴🌈✨ (@jerasikehorn.bsky.social)

BREAKING: The country of Norway just entered a bill to give transgender Americans asylum in the country of Norway… LGBTQ+ STRONG! 🌈✨

Bluesky Social

Also, real talk, that forcefem/forcemasc shit is some white trans ppl bullshit anyway. That's not the type of discourse that's coming from Black trans spaces, when I'm with my community I don't hear us making those kind of jokes, the same way that I never hear Black trans women using 4chan lingo like "passoid" or whatever.

Lowkey I think that "I'm gonna force a gender on you" is some colonial shit, even in jest

But also I hang out with trans people in offline spaces and a lot of the trans ppl I see stuck on forcefem stuff are usually extremely online, the type of people who when they say "the trans community" they're talking about their discord server *specifically* and *only* and that's part of the problem here

Me being interviewed about the Trump EO banning trans athletes and Georgia’s SB1:

https://georgiarecorder.com/2025/02/07/georgia-gop-controlled-senate-passes-ban-on-trans-girls-from-school-sports-teams/

Georgia GOP-controlled Senate passes ban on trans girls from school sports teams • Georgia Recorder

The Georgia transgender bill’s sponsor also suggested that the body will take action to ban puberty-blocking drugs. 

Georgia Recorder
In all seriousness, shit sucks right now and I am doing safety planning for lots of people in my life. Humor is the only way I’m getting through this 😭
Won’t someone think of the hospitals??? The hospitals are having a bad time!!! (Sarcasm)
Just an fyi that I am currently in the process of slowly moving off of mastodon.social to a new self-hosted instance for QTBIPOC friends (@sojuhokari)