Ditto, phrases like "I'm a member of the LGBTQ+ community". This is a fine lens if you want to center shared group context, but if you're trying to describe yourself so someone else can understand who you are--take a page from the '90s zines. Try "I'm a blue-collar bulldyke with a limp and a knife" or "chaos-gendered monsterfucker" or "the daddy butch your ex warned you about" or "haggard, cross-dressing opera queen with a penchant for buggery". You'll convey so much more about yourself.