A sex blogger (of sorts), lover of cocks & cunts, pansexual & demisexual, polyamorous, switch.
Old posts are regularly deleted
| Pronouns | He / Him |
| My links | musingsofaswitch.com/links/ |
I think my problem is less to do with which instance, but more to do with what I could set my username as?
I'm not sure that @musingsofaswitch really reflects who I actually am, and is more the name of my blog.
@bedtimedrillsgt
Just got home from holidays and read the sad news.
I'm sorry to hear that we reached the point where kinky.business draws too much energy and money as a hobby project 😿
I've always enjoyed it here and had so much fun on this great kinky instance. It'll be really hard to find a replacement.
Thanks for keeping us safe so we could stay filthy all that time. You've done a great job and should be proud of it 💜 
Even just thinking about where to sign up to continue after https://kinky.business shuts down, I am struggling to work out what my username should be on the new instance, or whether I still want a new account at all.
Do I use my current @musingsofaswitch or do I find something else to use? If so, I can't think of anything that speaks to me.
Hello kinky business... 😖
An important announcement that kinky.business is shutting down at the end of February 2025. Please read the whole text here:
https://gist.github.com/bedtimedrillsgt/b5d511a48b62e38814b1b213302900d8
Very sad to see that kinky.business is shutting down at the end of February :(
https://kinky.business/@bedtimedrillsgt/113743822713550589
There should be far more kinky content on the fediverse, and it's a big shame that the biggest (I think?) kinky community is closing. 
For anyone looking for a new home, mastodon.art allows all kinds of kinky content, be it writing, photography, art, whatever - as long as it's properly CWed and tagged. kinky.business members are very welcome to move over here. 
Hello kinky business... 😖 An important announcement that kinky.business is shutting down at the end of February 2025. Please read the whole text here: https://gist.github.com/bedtimedrillsgt/b5d511a48b62e38814b1b213302900d8
Hey @welshpixie, you're a pillar of Mastodon.
What are your recommendations for Mastodon instances suitable for sharing NSFW content with the appropriate content warnings, tags, and offering decent visibility?
So long, and thanks for all the fish 🐟
Since 2024 has come to a close, and https://kinky.business is coming to a close at the end of February, I am wondering what the online future for this part of my personality looks like through 2025 and beyond.
A little history:
I started an adult blog back in 2007-ish under a pseudonym (who shall remain nameless) and I built what I thought was a decent following. I ended that blog around the time I got married in 2012.
I started another blog around 2013 with my wife under a different pseudonym, and a new direction, although I did 99% of the upkeep and writing for it.
I stopped writing for that blog about 2019-ish (I think), and then didn't write much during the COVID period. The earliest post on my current blog is 2022, but even that has dwindled the last couple of months.
So now that my online "home" is closing, and I have contemplated it in the past, I'm wondering if 2024 was the last of my adult blogs ever.
Lauren LeFey (kink mode)
Triss, cuddle-slut 
Sir Bedtimedrillsgt 😈
Mastodon•ART 🎨 Curator