Bear Witness

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Bear man who loves having sex. Polyamorous, open relationship. Verse soft dom with a not entirely well-hidden submissive side. Interested in the spiritual aspects of leather. Looking for positive role models to inspire me to be better.

Community organizer with Toronto Kennel Klub (TKK) and Spearhead Leather & Denim Social Club (L.D.S.C.)

“I only bite if you want me to”

PronounsHe/him
AgeMiddle
CareerSoftware
Had an interesting experience this past week. I was staying at an inn with my family, who are friends with the innkeepers. We got talking to them, and it turns out the innkeepers are kinksters! Cue slideshow of Folsom street festival pictures for myself, my dad, and one of my partners. It was probably more nudity than I would have preferred with my father, but we took it in stride. By the end of the night he was cracking (good natured) jokes about it. Did not have that on my 2025 bingo card.
Congratulations to the winners of the Canadian Pup & Handler contest that took place this weekend in Toronto. I know that the prospect of this contest was divisive in the eyes of the pup community. I do believe, however, that the newly anointed winners have a chance to do some good for the community by drumming up support and volunteering their time. All eyes will be on the winners for the next little while to see how they’re going to choose to use the platform they’ve been given.
Me working the Spearhead charity toy drive last weekend and feeling cute

Interesting thought from a friend last night: if leather clubs are dying, why fight to save them? Is it not just nature running its course?

I don’t agree personally, but I could understand why someone would think that. I’m planning to have a coffee with them to argue the case in favour of keeping the club alive.

Might as well kick it off with the ole bdsmtest.org results

100% Non-monogamist
100% Voyeur
100% Degrader
98% Primal (Hunter)
95% Exhibitionist
94% Daddy/Mommy
93% Dominant
89% Degradee
87% Brat tamer
85% Owner
85% Pet
83% Primal (Prey)
80% Rigger
78% Rope bunny
73% Switch
70% Experimentalist
65% Slave
65% Submissive
64% Master/Mistress
57% Brat
46% Sadist
44% Masochist
32% Vanilla
17% Ageplayer
0% Little
== Results from bdsmtest.org: ==