Sorry to hear about yours, but I am also one that has been through much adversity and abuse (and healing). Most of us that have been through it, and worked through it, can’t talk about it enough because we want to help others figure things out quicker.
I’m in the U.S. too, and a far left person in a far right state/county/town to boot. But, I’m at least close to a metro area that is much more diverse. I personally don’t even need much social interaction these days, I’m fine with myself, my wife, and our cats. However, she still needs people, so we do our best to find the other people like us. We realized we are more likely to be in libraries, independent coffee shops, book stores, and museums, rather than bars, sporting events, etc. So, we try to spend more time at places where we are more likely to meet people like us.
I’ve found people don’t like when we (even unintentionally) expose the cracks in their worldview. Some of us just want to know what it all means, why we are here, etc.
Most people really don’t want to know those answers, and it can be very triggering to them (which is always transparent to them when it is happening otherwise healing traumas would be easy lol)