The Gentleman Lover™

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Suspended by mastodon.social.
Silenced by mstdn.social.
Tooting into the void.

I'm always interested in stimulating and respectful conversations free of expectations. The ones that don’t begin explicitly and don’t necessarily have to end that way – but can.

#nsfw #nude #lust #love #porn

@kissane This boils down to a well-known, simple but often-ignored fact: the nerds building stuff routinely have trouble empathising with non-technical users, other points of view and priorities. No value judgement here, just an observation over the decades.
@thezerobit This sounds more like having subjected yourself to aggressively questionable material than a healthy relationship with the many facets of sexuality. If one exclusively consumes bottom-drawer content, one should not be surprised by its effects – on every level. Same applies to merchandise, food, politics, mental and physical well-being, faith, education, what have you.
@xxxfootparty Since I’d researched several servers by now and foot fetish is a kink, https://kinky.business may quite possibly be the place for you.
Kinky Business

kinky.business was a Mastodon instance for the kink community. It is shutting down February 28, 2025.

Mastodon hosted on kinky.business
Diving into #erotic #fanart, one sadly cannot escape the conclusion that most people doing it appear to lack any kind of sense for taste.
@nillinlore Sorry to read that. One of my relationships ended like that as well, suddenly and without warning, albeit no breakup text. The person’s behaviour exudes immaturity and major unresolved personal issues – of course you know that already. Still, the way you felt together remains, lingering on, subtly stinging, keeping you daydreaming, aching, yearning. It’s a story forever unfinished, a “what if” never to be. It touches on a deep, fundamental need. Be kind to yourself.
I need to #cuddle and #kiss and have #sex and stay in bed all day so bad. It’s been way too long.

@xxxfootparty Thanks! Amazingly, all mentioned servers cater to niches inside niches. They don’t appear to be particularly welcoming to more general accounts like mine.

I have written to three admins, asking for a quick review of my account before moving it there. I’ll be pleasantly surprised to hear from any of them with a positive response.

How are you faring with mas.to?

@mikejackmin Thanks, that’s good to know. But until and unless I find a home where I’m truly welcome, I frankly see no point in expending any more energy.

@mikejackmin Server rules: “As such, "ostracizable" (non-tolerated) behavior includes spamming, scamming, nudity* / pornographic / sexual / graphic / NSFW content, […]“

It would appear you have so far flown under their radar.

My last post was apparently deleted by someone with admin privileges. I’ve had it with this instance. Can anyone recommend a proper #NSFW one with a great community for continuing with this account?