So my FetLife timeline has gotten more and more saturated with "A safer alt for Fet is coming!" but, for reasons, any -detail- is absent from public timelines...

When asked in -PRIVATE- I have yet to find any detail either.

It seems as if there are maybe 4 people on the whole site that -actually- know anything.

What have you all heard?

I want to cry and scream, but this is basically the only -safe- place for me to do it.

talking to my partner wont work, because she's got her own things to worry about.

talking on FetLife wont work either because of the same reasons....

everything just sucks right now, and I dont know how to fix it.

I am absolutely shredding myself to absolute pieces over writing a FetLife post about the necklace/not-a-collar I bought for myself around Halloween of this year.

I've got *ideas* which I find highly amusing and want to share, but I also appear to have caught the attention of a Domme and her submissive. Both of whom I get along with, so MAYBE a greater than zero chance of D/s happening? Dunno....

EITHER way.... I really feel like talking about collars, especially one that I OWN just isn't going to work out in my favor, and it SUCKS.... its a HUGE deal for me symbolically, and I don't want to ruin any POTENTIAL things that might happen.

Having done things in the past, like having a tag with the label "Placeholder" on it was highly amusing, and eventually worked out, but also felt SUPER risky to me -.-

this feels like another one of those moments, except that the interest was generated *before* mention, or display of any kind....