The open source sex tech project I've been working on is in Vice! https://motherboard.vice.com/en_us/article/433w8d/heres-why-we-need-more-open-source-software-for-buttplugs

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If you're on another instance and you have a problem with one of my users annoying you, just block them like you're a mature adult who can handle adversity, instead of being a dickless authoritarian who goes crying to your admin to instance block us. Not that I care if we get instance-blocked, but it's embarrassing to see alleged adults acting in such a pathetic manner and I feel bad for you. I'm not going to police my users over hurt feelings when you already have the tools to make the bad man go away.

Aral Balkan makes a good case that you should not trust Facebook, Microsoft, Twitter, or Google if they say they use E2E https://ar.al/notes/decrypting-amber-rudd/