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Sometimes biotech manager, sometimes EdTech scholar, always mom of five and usually (unintentionally) stirring up trouble. Formally [email protected]
She's a complicated, engaging, empathetic, and wildly intelligent person that I've had the privilege to know for going on a decade.

She was a core reason why Play Vicious was what it was, and as much as I value my role in founding it, she breathed life into it and helped to shape its culture down to the bones.

The fedi is exceptionally fortunate that she is still here, giving her insights because she believes this place can be more than it has shown.

Happy birthday
@CaribenxMarciaX

Your best days are still ahead of you, homie.

I love moss and I love frogs and I just discovered the cutest thing in existence: the Vietnamese moss frog 🤗

#mosstodon

There's a lot of talk about crediting the furries, queer and Trans folks that made this place what it is

But as soon as those ppl are of le Colour, it's easy to just scrub things as just a tag

I am seeing alot of new accounts that have been here since nov being recommended for talking about racism in fedi but ive been here since 2017 and suffering the same bs over n over

constant erasure
antagonism
which turns into sadness

One kamik… two kamiik! Not perfect, but wearable so I’m sending my boy back to school with the gift of warm feet capable of moving easily through the snow.

Imagine this. Imagine you have a bad experience that you see connects to a system that makes this bad experience a likely outcome for you. You can reasonably predict you will have to deal with it for your whole life.

Sit with that, imagine how that feels.

Imagine you do all the work of thinking, researching, dealing, and connecting to others in the same scenario. You also do the work of trying to improve the situation for you and others, and others to come. This is hard, hard work that other people not in your situation don’t have to do.

Imagine that one result is that the system that led to your experience, its historic causes and current harmful impacts, and multiple options for dealing with it, are all now really well documented because of your and others’ moral work, that was exhausting and painful to do.

Now imagine someone from the group who didn’t have to do any of this work comes along and—whatever their well meaning intentions—asks you to just explain it all for them, starting with your own bad experience, to help them understand it and feel better about it.

A simple plan for 2023: let’s not keep asking each other these exasperating and wounding questions, especially the ones that sound like scepticism. Use your imagination, trust the witnesses, do the work of learning for yourself.

It’ll go better.

If you haven't noticed, I'm big on common courtesy.

The little things like introducing yourself to people you don't know before assailing them with questions, asking about and respecting people's boundaries, respecting pronouns, apologizing when you're wrong, etc.

We often forget we really don't know each in this space, so we take courtesy for granted. But those small things build trust that eventually blooms into a community.

We're all people looking for some kind of connection, and finding those connections is so much easier when we have a baseline respect for our shared humanity.

Don't take the small things for granted. They are the bricks that build bridges between our wildly different experiences and backgrounds.
After a to undo-redo, I have made progress!! One kamik is now formed (and size approved by the wearer). Next we need to figure out fabric for the duffle (any suggestions welcome, lol).
I spent New Years Eve drinking tea and sewing. Design is an absolute experiment and combo of styles…

@yehuda The non-Natives view of #LandBack is mostly informed through a lens of colonialism. If land is just capital, just an asset to one's finances, then we must only support #LandBack for personal gain.

But from a Native lens, land is not private property. We support #Landback because we care about the wellbeing of the land and the wildlife and people that live on it.

Need something positive to remember 2022 for? The #kakapo
population grew by 25%: the second best year on record. There are now 251 in the world. #conservation #parrots