@LordEserine I’m mostly ace, I guess what would be called grey-sexual. I’m homoromantic, attracted almost exclusively to guys, and I enjoy sex, but it’s never been much of a priority. It’s like Korean barbecue; I won’t say no if I like the place, but I’m not motivated to seek it out. And, no, I’ve never gotten an erection at the sight of a good looking guy. So, it was easy for me not to notice that I was gay until I was older. In retrospect, there were signs, but I wasn’t paying attention. 🙂