""I could have you arrested," he said. Which is to say "One of your son's earliest memories will be watching the men who sodomized Abner Louima and choked Anthony Baez cuff, tase, and break you." I had forgotten the rules... One must be without error out here... Make no mistakes. But you are human and you will make mistakes. You will misjudge. You will yell. You will drink too much. You will hang out with people you shouldn't... But the price of error is higher for you than it is for your countrymen, and so America might justify itself, the story of a black body's destruction must always begin with his or her error, real or imagined - With Eric Garner's anger, with Trayvon Martin's mythical words, with Sean Bell's mistake of running with the wrong crowd... A society, almost necessarily, begins every success story with the chapter that most advantages itself, and in America, these precipitating chapters are almost always rendered as the singular action of exceptional individuals. "It only takes one person to make a change," you are often told. This is a myth. Perhaps one person can make a change but not the kind of change that would raise your body to equality with your countrymen...I am ashamed I made an error, knowing that our errors always cost us more."
ā Ta-Nehisi Coates: Between the World and Me, pp. 95-97